I’m 37 years old and have been married for seven years, but been with my husband for eight. When I started to see my husband it was two months after my previous relationship had ended, after my ex cheated. He said its something he deeply regrets and has asked my forgiveness.
However, I’ve never stop loving my ex and lately, my desire is to have him back in my life. I love my ex more than I love my husband. My husband is a good man, a great father and hasn’t done me anything except for the fact that he’s not affectionate, not into foreplay and never wants to go out. But my heart is with my ex. I can’t stop thinking about him, to the point where I break down and cry because I’m so in love with him.
My ex is also still in love with me and wants me back, but doesn’t want to be seen as a homewrecker. We have seen each other secretly a few times and our feelings exploded. My mind is a mess. I want back my ex badly.
Please don’t be harsh on me but give me the best advice possible for a woman who’s married but still in love with her ex. This situation has me unhappy. I cry every day.
There was a song in the seventies made popular by Mary Macgregor entitled Torn Between Two Lovers and the chorus goes:
“Torn between two lovers, feelin’ like a fool
Lovin’ both of you is breakin’ all the rules”.