Why My Ex Sucks

him.

Thu, 02 Sep 2010 22:04:10 -0400

he dumped me by text. while in the same club. our son was 5 weeks old, he got a new girlfriend a week later, he still slept with me and knew i was completely in love with him, he used me for my money and never got our son a thing. hes on his second girlfriend now its only been 7 months. hes hit me and spat in my face. i finally told him to never come near me again yesterday :)

What an Emo Goth! Sorry... long!

Thu, 02 Sep 2010 22:02:46 -0400

My ex is a douche bag and I should have known better but we were together for three years. He was a “Gothy” motorcycle riding martial artsy bad boy that hated anything that wasn’t in the guide lines of what he thought was relevant. If you liked something that wasn’t heavy metal then apparently you were an idiot.

1. He cheated on me despite preaching how if there is no trust in a relationship there is no love. So much for “honor”.

2. He and some of his friends loved drama all the time and sometimes I was the victim of it when I didn’t do anything wrong.

3. One of the mother’s of his friends who knew him since he was four years old had an unhealthy obsession with him. She hated my guts just because he spent more time with me. Literally that was her reason. She acted like a friend to my face but when I wasn’t around did anything in her power to make people dislike me. My ex did nothing to stop this because “he didn’t want to be forced to choose between us”. This woman doesn’t have any friends her age btw. I call her fatty MILF in my head now-a-days.

4. My ex has entitlement issues. He buys nothing for himself and still lives with his parents. If they don’t buy things he wants he flips out. (He is 23 now)

5. When I found out he had cheated on me, (I came across a receipt for an extra small lingerie outfit and dildo in his bedroom by accident) he choked me when I tried to leave.

7. When my cousin, who was my best friend and a mutual friend to him, was murdered he gave me no sympathy. He was actually late to the memorial service and he and his friends had gone out for breakfast and did not invite me. I would have said no but still, I am your fucking girlfriend you douche!

8. Crazy fat wanna be MILF bought him a ticket to a concert that I wanted to go to but on the conditions that I couldn’t go. She wanted to have a “good time”. I had no clue until he called me AT WORK to tell me what was happening on the DAY of the concert and was surprised I was upset.

9. He would get angry if I had guy friends he was friends with. Strangely he would tell me nothing about his friends or anything he was doing. He even got angry when one of his non-dramatic friends was nice enough to show me how to bowl correctly.

10. I learned after we broke up that he would talk a lot of negative things about me when we were together. He would call me a “bitch” until finally he said it to the wrong person. She was a friend of mine who I am still close to now and she chewed him up and spit him out.

I am still hold some anger (can’t you tell?) towards him but I’m ready to let go. At one point I really did love this person and not all the times were bad. Towards the end when I began to distance myself from him he actually stepped up in giving me attention. He even bought me a bouquet of roses. But he didn’t change how he acted when it came to most things. Apparently since I have broken up with him no other woman has wanted to be around him. He has been single and hasn’t gotten laid in a long time. Not long ago he called my cell phone when he was drunk and threatened to rape me. Gee that’s fun! Looking back and reading my old journals during that time I realized I barely did anything wrong. I was a dutiful girlfriend who loved him. He was the problem in the relationship and the people who he allowed to affect it negatively. I was just dumb enough to take it for so long. I wish I told him to pull his damn tampon out and act like a man. lol Oh well.

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Wed, 01 Sep 2010 23:51:09 -0400

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ex1- he had sex with me while i was sleeping ex2- successfully convinced me i was the one using him...

Wed, 01 Sep 2010 23:37:35 -0400

ex1- he had sex with me while i was sleeping
ex2- successfully convinced me i was the one using him for sex (i read his journal, he wrote about how he was using me for sex)

he broke up with me over facebook. he changed his status to single and that’s how i found out...

Wed, 01 Sep 2010 23:37:19 -0400

he broke up with me over facebook. he changed his status to single and that’s how i found out we were over.

he still wants us to keep talking with the possibility of us getting back together someday. (wtf)

i told him i can’t be just friends with him. it’s all or nothing.

he still wants to be friends.

I believed he loved me

Wed, 01 Sep 2010 22:57:57 -0400

1.he told me he loved me.

2.he’s a pathological liar

3.I sent him money out of state to buy me a concert ticket(via western union) he stole my money and changed his number.

1) he decided after 3 years of going out that he wanted to explore himself and not have a...

Wed, 01 Sep 2010 22:44:15 -0400

1) he decided after 3 years of going out that he wanted to explore himself and not have a girlfriend, claiming ” it’s not that i don’t love you, i just need to spend time alone for a while”

2) we got back together a few times to hang out,which always led to him seducing me and having sex while telling me he loved me and wanted to marry me.

3)i found out he had been sleeping around while away overseas.

4)he got a new girlfriend but still texted and messaged me asking for sex.

1. he broke up with me over text 2. for another woman. 3. when i was 3 months pregnant.

Wed, 01 Sep 2010 22:43:53 -0400

1. he broke up with me over text

2. for another woman.

3. when i was 3 months pregnant.

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Fri, 20 Aug 2010 17:33:00 -0400

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london lies.

Fri, 20 Aug 2010 17:27:51 -0400

1. he told me he was ‘not like those american boys’ who cheated& &i believed him.

2. on his tumblr he openly talked about his ex he couldn`t get over. when i would ask about it, hed yell at me &tell me that maybe it`s cus i was the one messing around.

3. on the day he told me he loved me, he blogged on his tumblr how he could only love his ex.

4. when his ex got a boyfriend, he called me &told me that i was just like every other girl jumpin on the next guy i could find, accusing me of cheating.

5. he denied having anything to do with me.

6. the last i heard from him, he told me he loved me &was so glad i came into his life. after that i never heard from him again. i tried calling but he refuses to talk to me. it’s been a month now. he never officially broke up with me but you get the picture. he fcking sucks.

1. He used me for my best friend who is still going out with now, but only by texting. 2. He broke...

Mon, 09 Aug 2010 09:49:23 -0400

1. He used me for my best friend who is still going out with now, but only by texting.

2. He broke up with me by text.

3. Using his little sister’s phone.

4. On the exact time and date of our one month anniversary.

Small World

Tue, 03 Aug 2010 10:00:00 -0400

1. We’re 18 years old

2. He cheated on me

3. By fucking my 14-year old neighbor

Long Distance Fucker

Sun, 01 Aug 2010 12:03:43 -0400

1. He insisted we stay together when I went away for a year.

2. He said he loved me every day over the phone or computer.

3. He cheated on me three times with girls I thought were my friends.

Little dick, big ego

Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:00:00 -0400

1. He cheated on me. While he was at church camp. Yeah.

2. I’ve seen babies with bigger dicks than his, and I’ve never met anyone with a bigger ego.

3. He called me another girl’s name. While we were having sex. And thought it was funny.

1. She tried to make me convert to Catholicism 2. She hated white people, even though she is white...

Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:01:16 -0400

1. She tried to make me convert to Catholicism

2. She hated white people, even though she is white herself.

3. She fancied herself a free spirit, when in fact she was usually the most judgmental and uptight person in the room.

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Wed, 28 Jul 2010 10:30:00 -0400

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He couldn't keep a promise or an erection.

Wed, 28 Jul 2010 10:00:00 -0400

Why my ex sucks:

1. He stood me up at least 8 out of ten times, always blaming it on work or some other obligation. Rarely calling before hand.

2. I found out from my blog, when two other women commented, that he was dating another girl, AND working on his relationship with his Ex Wife at the SAME time he was dating me.

3. He couldn’t keep an erection. He blamed it on shrapnel (from where?! who was shooting at his dick?!), I think it was just because he’s a piece of shit.

Man Whore

Wed, 28 Jul 2010 07:04:20 -0400

1. He cheated on me 3 times

2. I was his “fuhking lover” even though he claimed multiple times of wanting a relationship again

3. He’s dating an old friend of mine

Basically, I feel bad for him. He doesn’t know what the FUHK he wants.

1. I broke up with her (after she gave not very subtle hints of how little she cared about us). 2....

Fri, 16 Jul 2010 16:00:00 -0400

1. I broke up with her (after she gave not very subtle hints of how little she cared about us).

2. Three months later she went to London and married an English guy after a month.

3. It didn’t take a genius to connect the dots of our relationship and find out that I was “the other guy” all along.

hopeless

Fri, 16 Jul 2010 14:00:00 -0400

1. He’s just not the one for me, im an apple hes an orange.